Nellie was the daughter of John Large and Mary Jane Fry, who married on 29 Mar 1877 in Fulton Co., Indiana. According to Mary Jane on the 1910 Census, the couple brought thirteen children into the world, only eight of whom survived their infancy. (See sibling links for names and dates.)
I found Nellie's parents on the 1880 Census, living in Union Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. John Large, 33, was earning a living doing farm labor. Mary Jane, 23, was keeping house. There were no children with them.
Ahhh…to have that 1890 Census back…
The 1900 Census placed Nellie's family in Aubbeenaubbee Twp., Fulton Co., Indiana. John Large, 58, was noted as a day laborer. Mary Jane, 43, reported that she had had twelve children, but that only eight had survived to that census. There with their parents were Elva, 17, Vada, 15, Nellie, 12, Laura, 8, Lutie May, 6, Ralph, 4, and 1-year-old Estella Ruth.
The year following that census, Mary Jane gave birth to the couple's thirteenth child, daughter Effie Gertrude, born on 8 Jul 1901. Sadly, she died a year and three months later on 10 Oct 1902, a bowel ailment noted as cause of death.
The dark cloud returned six years later to claim husband and father John Large, his heart failing on 23 Jan 1908.
Mary Jane, widowed, 53, appeared as head of household on the 1910 Census, living in Culver, Marshall Co., Indiana with five of her children—Nellie, 22, Laura, 18, Lutie May, 16, Ralph, 14, and Estella Ruth, 11. Mary Jane reported that of the thirteen children she had had, only eight had survived to that census. She and daughter Nellie were supporting the family by taking in laundry.
On 25 Jul 1916, Nellie married Peter Ora Abair in Green Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. They would bring two children into the world—Velma Leona (10 Jun 1919 – 6 Jul 2004, married Arthur Cordes), and Harold Ralph (23 Jun 1922 – 27 Feb 1986, married Dorothy Brock).
Nellie's husband Peter was a farmer, one aspect of that career apparently relieving sheep of their wool. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 23 May 1918 p. 4) "Harvey Pontius and Peter Abair are the busy men, just now, as everyone wants their sheep sheared at the same time."
A year later, the stork paid the couple a visit. (The Argos Reflector-Week of July 10, 1919) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair are the proud parents of a baby girl [Velma], born Thursday July 10."
The 1920 Census reflected the addition of Velma to the family. They were living in Green Twp. (Argos area), Marshall Co., Indiana. Peter A'Bair, 34, was noted as a farmer. Nellie, 31, was home with 5-month-old Velma.
Two years after that census, Velma got herself a baby brother. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Jun 1922 p. 5) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter A'bair are the proud parents of a boy [Harold] since Friday, June 23 [Thursday, June 22 was the correct date]."
In the spring of 1926, the family's home went up in flames. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 8) "Last Wednesday [ 21 Apr] the alarm was given that Pete Abair's house was on fire. By the neighbors' assistance they managed to save the contents of the house except the kitchen range and coal oil stove. It is a loss to the family, and as there was an empty house close by they moved in that evening. He carried insurance." (Thu 24 Jun 1926 p. 4) "Peter Abair is making progress in replacing the house recently burned." (Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 1) "NOTICE TO THE PUBLIC. We wish to express our gratefulness to the many neighbors and friends for the kindness and help they gave us during our fire. –Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair"
Life went on, as it tends to do. There were happy times to balance the difficult times. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 3 Oct 1929 p. 1) "LARGE FAMILY IN ANNUAL REUNION. The fourth anual [sic] reunion of the Large family was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. David H. Smith of Argos, the 22nd day of Sept., with an attendance of 27. The crowd was surprised at the noon hour by the appearance of the new bride and groom, Mr. and Mrs. Lester C. Smith. The newly married couple received a ricing, after which they treated with candy and cigars. Then the basket dinner was served cafeteria style. The program was held at 2 o'clock with a Welcome by Harold Abair, followed by a reading by Orval Large, song by Peter Abair and reading by Delbert Large, Velma Abair and Helen Large. Then Nellie Abair, Sarah Moore and Rose Beck entertained with a laughing contest. Minutes were read and the program was closed by a prayer by Emily Large. New officers elected for the coming year were Sarah Moore, President; David Smith, vice president; Rose Beck, Sec.-Treas.; Entertaining Com., Nellie Abair, Annice Large and Clara Butler. The oldest one present was Tom Beck of Tiosa and the youngest was Miss Susan Large of Leiters Ford. The day was closed with a picture of the group being taken. The next reunion will be held with Mr. and Mrs. Cleo Wynn of Argos, the first Sunday in September."
The Abair clan was still living in Green Township when the 1930 Census enumerators began knocking on doors. Peter Abair, 44, was busy with the family farm. Nellie, 41, was tending to the household and to their two growing children—Velma, 10, and 7-year-old Harold.
A month later, daughter Velma had a health crisis. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 22 May 1930 p. 4) "Velma, little daughter of Pete and Nellie A'Bair became very sick with appendicitis, was taken to Kelly hospital and operated on Friday. She is in a very critical condition. The family have the sympathy of the community." By the grace of all that is good, Velma made a complete recovery.
Nellie was very active in the Argos community. (The Argos Reflector – Wed 13 Jul 1938 p. 3) "Gilead Ladies Aid Meeting. The Gilead Ladies Aid met in an all day meeting with Mrs. Nellie Abair and daughter Velma, July 6, with eleven members present. The day was spent knotting and finishing a comforter and making aprons. At noon a delicious pot-luck dinner was served. In the afternoon the president, Mrs. Hooker, had charge of the business meeting. The scripture lesson was read by Mrs. Siple. The secretary's report was read and approved and various items of business were disposed of. The next meeting will be held with Mrs. Victoria Wynn, Aug. 3."
The 1940 Census caught back up with the family, still residing in Green Township. Peter Abair, 54, was still noted as a farmer. Nellie, 52, was home with Velma, 20, and Harold, 17.
Three years later, on 2 Mar 1943, Nellie and Peter's son Harold married Dorothy Brock. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 18 Mar 1943 p. 3) "About 65 relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair gave them a fine shower Saturday evening at the home of Harold's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair. The evening was spent visititing and the couple received many nice and useful presents. Mrs. Peter Abair served lovely refreshments of cookies, sandwiches, jello and coffee. Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair treated with candy clusters and cigars. The couple was given an old fashioned belling [i.e a noisy mock serenade made by banging pans and kettles to a newly married couple] after the shower."
During WWII, Harold served in the Army. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Nov 1945 p. 1) "Pvt. Harold R. Abair recently arrived on Okinawa according to word received by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair."
By the time the 1950 Census rolled around, Nellie and Peter's nest was empty. Peter, 64, did not have anything noted in the occupation line. Nellie, 62, was still at his side.
Daughter Velma didn't find her soulmate until she was 36. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1954 p. 3) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair R.R. 3, Argos, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Velma, to Arthur Cordes, son of Lewis Cordes of R.R. 1, Argos. No date has been set for the wedding." (13 Jan 1955 p. 8) "Miss Velma Abair Weds Arthur Cordes, Saturday. Miss Velma Abair, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair route 3, Argos, and Arthur Cordes, son of Louis Cordes, route 1, Argos, recited marriage vows in the Richland Center Methodist Church at eight o'clock Saturday evening. The double ring service was read by the pastor, Rev. Dale Hamilton. Attending the couple were Mrs. Grace Boothe, cousin of the bride and Jack Glass, both of Plymouth. The bride was attired in a dress of teal blue taffeta worn with a yellow rose corsage. The matron of honor wore an aqua dress and a red rose corsage. The bridegroom served overseas in World War II and is employed at McCord factory in Plymouth. The couple plans to reside near Argos on route 3, as soon as their house is ready for occupancy."
It was about that same time that Nellie began her battle with diabetes. Four years after watching daughter Velma walk down the aisle, Nellie succumbed to her illness, five days before Thanksgiving Day on 22 Nov 1958. She was 70 years old.
Nellie's husband Peter hit a bump in the road the week before his eightieth birthday. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 9 Sep 1965 p. 1) "Peter Abair, farmer, R.R. 3, Argos, was admitted on Monday to Parkview Hospital for treatment of a broken hip. Mr. Abair fell in his home when he stumbled, resulting in the injury." Peter lived on, not passing into the light until 17 Mar 1971 at age 85.
I found Nellie's parents on the 1880 Census, living in Union Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. John Large, 33, was earning a living doing farm labor. Mary Jane, 23, was keeping house. There were no children with them.
Ahhh…to have that 1890 Census back…
The 1900 Census placed Nellie's family in Aubbeenaubbee Twp., Fulton Co., Indiana. John Large, 58, was noted as a day laborer. Mary Jane, 43, reported that she had had twelve children, but that only eight had survived to that census. There with their parents were Elva, 17, Vada, 15, Nellie, 12, Laura, 8, Lutie May, 6, Ralph, 4, and 1-year-old Estella Ruth.
The year following that census, Mary Jane gave birth to the couple's thirteenth child, daughter Effie Gertrude, born on 8 Jul 1901. Sadly, she died a year and three months later on 10 Oct 1902, a bowel ailment noted as cause of death.
The dark cloud returned six years later to claim husband and father John Large, his heart failing on 23 Jan 1908.
Mary Jane, widowed, 53, appeared as head of household on the 1910 Census, living in Culver, Marshall Co., Indiana with five of her children—Nellie, 22, Laura, 18, Lutie May, 16, Ralph, 14, and Estella Ruth, 11. Mary Jane reported that of the thirteen children she had had, only eight had survived to that census. She and daughter Nellie were supporting the family by taking in laundry.
On 25 Jul 1916, Nellie married Peter Ora Abair in Green Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. They would bring two children into the world—Velma Leona (10 Jun 1919 – 6 Jul 2004, married Arthur Cordes), and Harold Ralph (23 Jun 1922 – 27 Feb 1986, married Dorothy Brock).
Nellie's husband Peter was a farmer, one aspect of that career apparently relieving sheep of their wool. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 23 May 1918 p. 4) "Harvey Pontius and Peter Abair are the busy men, just now, as everyone wants their sheep sheared at the same time."
A year later, the stork paid the couple a visit. (The Argos Reflector-Week of July 10, 1919) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair are the proud parents of a baby girl [Velma], born Thursday July 10."
The 1920 Census reflected the addition of Velma to the family. They were living in Green Twp. (Argos area), Marshall Co., Indiana. Peter A'Bair, 34, was noted as a farmer. Nellie, 31, was home with 5-month-old Velma.
Two years after that census, Velma got herself a baby brother. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Jun 1922 p. 5) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter A'bair are the proud parents of a boy [Harold] since Friday, June 23 [Thursday, June 22 was the correct date]."
In the spring of 1926, the family's home went up in flames. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 8) "Last Wednesday [ 21 Apr] the alarm was given that Pete Abair's house was on fire. By the neighbors' assistance they managed to save the contents of the house except the kitchen range and coal oil stove. It is a loss to the family, and as there was an empty house close by they moved in that evening. He carried insurance." (Thu 24 Jun 1926 p. 4) "Peter Abair is making progress in replacing the house recently burned." (Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 1) "NOTICE TO THE PUBLIC. We wish to express our gratefulness to the many neighbors and friends for the kindness and help they gave us during our fire. –Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair"
Life went on, as it tends to do. There were happy times to balance the difficult times. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 3 Oct 1929 p. 1) "LARGE FAMILY IN ANNUAL REUNION. The fourth anual [sic] reunion of the Large family was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. David H. Smith of Argos, the 22nd day of Sept., with an attendance of 27. The crowd was surprised at the noon hour by the appearance of the new bride and groom, Mr. and Mrs. Lester C. Smith. The newly married couple received a ricing, after which they treated with candy and cigars. Then the basket dinner was served cafeteria style. The program was held at 2 o'clock with a Welcome by Harold Abair, followed by a reading by Orval Large, song by Peter Abair and reading by Delbert Large, Velma Abair and Helen Large. Then Nellie Abair, Sarah Moore and Rose Beck entertained with a laughing contest. Minutes were read and the program was closed by a prayer by Emily Large. New officers elected for the coming year were Sarah Moore, President; David Smith, vice president; Rose Beck, Sec.-Treas.; Entertaining Com., Nellie Abair, Annice Large and Clara Butler. The oldest one present was Tom Beck of Tiosa and the youngest was Miss Susan Large of Leiters Ford. The day was closed with a picture of the group being taken. The next reunion will be held with Mr. and Mrs. Cleo Wynn of Argos, the first Sunday in September."
The Abair clan was still living in Green Township when the 1930 Census enumerators began knocking on doors. Peter Abair, 44, was busy with the family farm. Nellie, 41, was tending to the household and to their two growing children—Velma, 10, and 7-year-old Harold.
A month later, daughter Velma had a health crisis. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 22 May 1930 p. 4) "Velma, little daughter of Pete and Nellie A'Bair became very sick with appendicitis, was taken to Kelly hospital and operated on Friday. She is in a very critical condition. The family have the sympathy of the community." By the grace of all that is good, Velma made a complete recovery.
Nellie was very active in the Argos community. (The Argos Reflector – Wed 13 Jul 1938 p. 3) "Gilead Ladies Aid Meeting. The Gilead Ladies Aid met in an all day meeting with Mrs. Nellie Abair and daughter Velma, July 6, with eleven members present. The day was spent knotting and finishing a comforter and making aprons. At noon a delicious pot-luck dinner was served. In the afternoon the president, Mrs. Hooker, had charge of the business meeting. The scripture lesson was read by Mrs. Siple. The secretary's report was read and approved and various items of business were disposed of. The next meeting will be held with Mrs. Victoria Wynn, Aug. 3."
The 1940 Census caught back up with the family, still residing in Green Township. Peter Abair, 54, was still noted as a farmer. Nellie, 52, was home with Velma, 20, and Harold, 17.
Three years later, on 2 Mar 1943, Nellie and Peter's son Harold married Dorothy Brock. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 18 Mar 1943 p. 3) "About 65 relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair gave them a fine shower Saturday evening at the home of Harold's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair. The evening was spent visititing and the couple received many nice and useful presents. Mrs. Peter Abair served lovely refreshments of cookies, sandwiches, jello and coffee. Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair treated with candy clusters and cigars. The couple was given an old fashioned belling [i.e a noisy mock serenade made by banging pans and kettles to a newly married couple] after the shower."
During WWII, Harold served in the Army. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Nov 1945 p. 1) "Pvt. Harold R. Abair recently arrived on Okinawa according to word received by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair."
By the time the 1950 Census rolled around, Nellie and Peter's nest was empty. Peter, 64, did not have anything noted in the occupation line. Nellie, 62, was still at his side.
Daughter Velma didn't find her soulmate until she was 36. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1954 p. 3) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair R.R. 3, Argos, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Velma, to Arthur Cordes, son of Lewis Cordes of R.R. 1, Argos. No date has been set for the wedding." (13 Jan 1955 p. 8) "Miss Velma Abair Weds Arthur Cordes, Saturday. Miss Velma Abair, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair route 3, Argos, and Arthur Cordes, son of Louis Cordes, route 1, Argos, recited marriage vows in the Richland Center Methodist Church at eight o'clock Saturday evening. The double ring service was read by the pastor, Rev. Dale Hamilton. Attending the couple were Mrs. Grace Boothe, cousin of the bride and Jack Glass, both of Plymouth. The bride was attired in a dress of teal blue taffeta worn with a yellow rose corsage. The matron of honor wore an aqua dress and a red rose corsage. The bridegroom served overseas in World War II and is employed at McCord factory in Plymouth. The couple plans to reside near Argos on route 3, as soon as their house is ready for occupancy."
It was about that same time that Nellie began her battle with diabetes. Four years after watching daughter Velma walk down the aisle, Nellie succumbed to her illness, five days before Thanksgiving Day on 22 Nov 1958. She was 70 years old.
Nellie's husband Peter hit a bump in the road the week before his eightieth birthday. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 9 Sep 1965 p. 1) "Peter Abair, farmer, R.R. 3, Argos, was admitted on Monday to Parkview Hospital for treatment of a broken hip. Mr. Abair fell in his home when he stumbled, resulting in the injury." Peter lived on, not passing into the light until 17 Mar 1971 at age 85.
Nellie was the daughter of John Large and Mary Jane Fry, who married on 29 Mar 1877 in Fulton Co., Indiana. According to Mary Jane on the 1910 Census, the couple brought thirteen children into the world, only eight of whom survived their infancy. (See sibling links for names and dates.)
I found Nellie's parents on the 1880 Census, living in Union Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. John Large, 33, was earning a living doing farm labor. Mary Jane, 23, was keeping house. There were no children with them.
Ahhh…to have that 1890 Census back…
The 1900 Census placed Nellie's family in Aubbeenaubbee Twp., Fulton Co., Indiana. John Large, 58, was noted as a day laborer. Mary Jane, 43, reported that she had had twelve children, but that only eight had survived to that census. There with their parents were Elva, 17, Vada, 15, Nellie, 12, Laura, 8, Lutie May, 6, Ralph, 4, and 1-year-old Estella Ruth.
The year following that census, Mary Jane gave birth to the couple's thirteenth child, daughter Effie Gertrude, born on 8 Jul 1901. Sadly, she died a year and three months later on 10 Oct 1902, a bowel ailment noted as cause of death.
The dark cloud returned six years later to claim husband and father John Large, his heart failing on 23 Jan 1908.
Mary Jane, widowed, 53, appeared as head of household on the 1910 Census, living in Culver, Marshall Co., Indiana with five of her children—Nellie, 22, Laura, 18, Lutie May, 16, Ralph, 14, and Estella Ruth, 11. Mary Jane reported that of the thirteen children she had had, only eight had survived to that census. She and daughter Nellie were supporting the family by taking in laundry.
On 25 Jul 1916, Nellie married Peter Ora Abair in Green Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. They would bring two children into the world—Velma Leona (10 Jun 1919 – 6 Jul 2004, married Arthur Cordes), and Harold Ralph (23 Jun 1922 – 27 Feb 1986, married Dorothy Brock).
Nellie's husband Peter was a farmer, one aspect of that career apparently relieving sheep of their wool. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 23 May 1918 p. 4) "Harvey Pontius and Peter Abair are the busy men, just now, as everyone wants their sheep sheared at the same time."
A year later, the stork paid the couple a visit. (The Argos Reflector-Week of July 10, 1919) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair are the proud parents of a baby girl [Velma], born Thursday July 10."
The 1920 Census reflected the addition of Velma to the family. They were living in Green Twp. (Argos area), Marshall Co., Indiana. Peter A'Bair, 34, was noted as a farmer. Nellie, 31, was home with 5-month-old Velma.
Two years after that census, Velma got herself a baby brother. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Jun 1922 p. 5) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter A'bair are the proud parents of a boy [Harold] since Friday, June 23 [Thursday, June 22 was the correct date]."
In the spring of 1926, the family's home went up in flames. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 8) "Last Wednesday [ 21 Apr] the alarm was given that Pete Abair's house was on fire. By the neighbors' assistance they managed to save the contents of the house except the kitchen range and coal oil stove. It is a loss to the family, and as there was an empty house close by they moved in that evening. He carried insurance." (Thu 24 Jun 1926 p. 4) "Peter Abair is making progress in replacing the house recently burned." (Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 1) "NOTICE TO THE PUBLIC. We wish to express our gratefulness to the many neighbors and friends for the kindness and help they gave us during our fire. –Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair"
Life went on, as it tends to do. There were happy times to balance the difficult times. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 3 Oct 1929 p. 1) "LARGE FAMILY IN ANNUAL REUNION. The fourth anual [sic] reunion of the Large family was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. David H. Smith of Argos, the 22nd day of Sept., with an attendance of 27. The crowd was surprised at the noon hour by the appearance of the new bride and groom, Mr. and Mrs. Lester C. Smith. The newly married couple received a ricing, after which they treated with candy and cigars. Then the basket dinner was served cafeteria style. The program was held at 2 o'clock with a Welcome by Harold Abair, followed by a reading by Orval Large, song by Peter Abair and reading by Delbert Large, Velma Abair and Helen Large. Then Nellie Abair, Sarah Moore and Rose Beck entertained with a laughing contest. Minutes were read and the program was closed by a prayer by Emily Large. New officers elected for the coming year were Sarah Moore, President; David Smith, vice president; Rose Beck, Sec.-Treas.; Entertaining Com., Nellie Abair, Annice Large and Clara Butler. The oldest one present was Tom Beck of Tiosa and the youngest was Miss Susan Large of Leiters Ford. The day was closed with a picture of the group being taken. The next reunion will be held with Mr. and Mrs. Cleo Wynn of Argos, the first Sunday in September."
The Abair clan was still living in Green Township when the 1930 Census enumerators began knocking on doors. Peter Abair, 44, was busy with the family farm. Nellie, 41, was tending to the household and to their two growing children—Velma, 10, and 7-year-old Harold.
A month later, daughter Velma had a health crisis. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 22 May 1930 p. 4) "Velma, little daughter of Pete and Nellie A'Bair became very sick with appendicitis, was taken to Kelly hospital and operated on Friday. She is in a very critical condition. The family have the sympathy of the community." By the grace of all that is good, Velma made a complete recovery.
Nellie was very active in the Argos community. (The Argos Reflector – Wed 13 Jul 1938 p. 3) "Gilead Ladies Aid Meeting. The Gilead Ladies Aid met in an all day meeting with Mrs. Nellie Abair and daughter Velma, July 6, with eleven members present. The day was spent knotting and finishing a comforter and making aprons. At noon a delicious pot-luck dinner was served. In the afternoon the president, Mrs. Hooker, had charge of the business meeting. The scripture lesson was read by Mrs. Siple. The secretary's report was read and approved and various items of business were disposed of. The next meeting will be held with Mrs. Victoria Wynn, Aug. 3."
The 1940 Census caught back up with the family, still residing in Green Township. Peter Abair, 54, was still noted as a farmer. Nellie, 52, was home with Velma, 20, and Harold, 17.
Three years later, on 2 Mar 1943, Nellie and Peter's son Harold married Dorothy Brock. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 18 Mar 1943 p. 3) "About 65 relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair gave them a fine shower Saturday evening at the home of Harold's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair. The evening was spent visititing and the couple received many nice and useful presents. Mrs. Peter Abair served lovely refreshments of cookies, sandwiches, jello and coffee. Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair treated with candy clusters and cigars. The couple was given an old fashioned belling [i.e a noisy mock serenade made by banging pans and kettles to a newly married couple] after the shower."
During WWII, Harold served in the Army. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Nov 1945 p. 1) "Pvt. Harold R. Abair recently arrived on Okinawa according to word received by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair."
By the time the 1950 Census rolled around, Nellie and Peter's nest was empty. Peter, 64, did not have anything noted in the occupation line. Nellie, 62, was still at his side.
Daughter Velma didn't find her soulmate until she was 36. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1954 p. 3) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair R.R. 3, Argos, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Velma, to Arthur Cordes, son of Lewis Cordes of R.R. 1, Argos. No date has been set for the wedding." (13 Jan 1955 p. 8) "Miss Velma Abair Weds Arthur Cordes, Saturday. Miss Velma Abair, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair route 3, Argos, and Arthur Cordes, son of Louis Cordes, route 1, Argos, recited marriage vows in the Richland Center Methodist Church at eight o'clock Saturday evening. The double ring service was read by the pastor, Rev. Dale Hamilton. Attending the couple were Mrs. Grace Boothe, cousin of the bride and Jack Glass, both of Plymouth. The bride was attired in a dress of teal blue taffeta worn with a yellow rose corsage. The matron of honor wore an aqua dress and a red rose corsage. The bridegroom served overseas in World War II and is employed at McCord factory in Plymouth. The couple plans to reside near Argos on route 3, as soon as their house is ready for occupancy."
It was about that same time that Nellie began her battle with diabetes. Four years after watching daughter Velma walk down the aisle, Nellie succumbed to her illness, five days before Thanksgiving Day on 22 Nov 1958. She was 70 years old.
Nellie's husband Peter hit a bump in the road the week before his eightieth birthday. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 9 Sep 1965 p. 1) "Peter Abair, farmer, R.R. 3, Argos, was admitted on Monday to Parkview Hospital for treatment of a broken hip. Mr. Abair fell in his home when he stumbled, resulting in the injury." Peter lived on, not passing into the light until 17 Mar 1971 at age 85.
I found Nellie's parents on the 1880 Census, living in Union Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. John Large, 33, was earning a living doing farm labor. Mary Jane, 23, was keeping house. There were no children with them.
Ahhh…to have that 1890 Census back…
The 1900 Census placed Nellie's family in Aubbeenaubbee Twp., Fulton Co., Indiana. John Large, 58, was noted as a day laborer. Mary Jane, 43, reported that she had had twelve children, but that only eight had survived to that census. There with their parents were Elva, 17, Vada, 15, Nellie, 12, Laura, 8, Lutie May, 6, Ralph, 4, and 1-year-old Estella Ruth.
The year following that census, Mary Jane gave birth to the couple's thirteenth child, daughter Effie Gertrude, born on 8 Jul 1901. Sadly, she died a year and three months later on 10 Oct 1902, a bowel ailment noted as cause of death.
The dark cloud returned six years later to claim husband and father John Large, his heart failing on 23 Jan 1908.
Mary Jane, widowed, 53, appeared as head of household on the 1910 Census, living in Culver, Marshall Co., Indiana with five of her children—Nellie, 22, Laura, 18, Lutie May, 16, Ralph, 14, and Estella Ruth, 11. Mary Jane reported that of the thirteen children she had had, only eight had survived to that census. She and daughter Nellie were supporting the family by taking in laundry.
On 25 Jul 1916, Nellie married Peter Ora Abair in Green Twp., Marshall Co., Indiana. They would bring two children into the world—Velma Leona (10 Jun 1919 – 6 Jul 2004, married Arthur Cordes), and Harold Ralph (23 Jun 1922 – 27 Feb 1986, married Dorothy Brock).
Nellie's husband Peter was a farmer, one aspect of that career apparently relieving sheep of their wool. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 23 May 1918 p. 4) "Harvey Pontius and Peter Abair are the busy men, just now, as everyone wants their sheep sheared at the same time."
A year later, the stork paid the couple a visit. (The Argos Reflector-Week of July 10, 1919) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair are the proud parents of a baby girl [Velma], born Thursday July 10."
The 1920 Census reflected the addition of Velma to the family. They were living in Green Twp. (Argos area), Marshall Co., Indiana. Peter A'Bair, 34, was noted as a farmer. Nellie, 31, was home with 5-month-old Velma.
Two years after that census, Velma got herself a baby brother. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Jun 1922 p. 5) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter A'bair are the proud parents of a boy [Harold] since Friday, June 23 [Thursday, June 22 was the correct date]."
In the spring of 1926, the family's home went up in flames. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 8) "Last Wednesday [ 21 Apr] the alarm was given that Pete Abair's house was on fire. By the neighbors' assistance they managed to save the contents of the house except the kitchen range and coal oil stove. It is a loss to the family, and as there was an empty house close by they moved in that evening. He carried insurance." (Thu 24 Jun 1926 p. 4) "Peter Abair is making progress in replacing the house recently burned." (Thu 29 Apr 1926 p. 1) "NOTICE TO THE PUBLIC. We wish to express our gratefulness to the many neighbors and friends for the kindness and help they gave us during our fire. –Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair"
Life went on, as it tends to do. There were happy times to balance the difficult times. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 3 Oct 1929 p. 1) "LARGE FAMILY IN ANNUAL REUNION. The fourth anual [sic] reunion of the Large family was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. David H. Smith of Argos, the 22nd day of Sept., with an attendance of 27. The crowd was surprised at the noon hour by the appearance of the new bride and groom, Mr. and Mrs. Lester C. Smith. The newly married couple received a ricing, after which they treated with candy and cigars. Then the basket dinner was served cafeteria style. The program was held at 2 o'clock with a Welcome by Harold Abair, followed by a reading by Orval Large, song by Peter Abair and reading by Delbert Large, Velma Abair and Helen Large. Then Nellie Abair, Sarah Moore and Rose Beck entertained with a laughing contest. Minutes were read and the program was closed by a prayer by Emily Large. New officers elected for the coming year were Sarah Moore, President; David Smith, vice president; Rose Beck, Sec.-Treas.; Entertaining Com., Nellie Abair, Annice Large and Clara Butler. The oldest one present was Tom Beck of Tiosa and the youngest was Miss Susan Large of Leiters Ford. The day was closed with a picture of the group being taken. The next reunion will be held with Mr. and Mrs. Cleo Wynn of Argos, the first Sunday in September."
The Abair clan was still living in Green Township when the 1930 Census enumerators began knocking on doors. Peter Abair, 44, was busy with the family farm. Nellie, 41, was tending to the household and to their two growing children—Velma, 10, and 7-year-old Harold.
A month later, daughter Velma had a health crisis. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 22 May 1930 p. 4) "Velma, little daughter of Pete and Nellie A'Bair became very sick with appendicitis, was taken to Kelly hospital and operated on Friday. She is in a very critical condition. The family have the sympathy of the community." By the grace of all that is good, Velma made a complete recovery.
Nellie was very active in the Argos community. (The Argos Reflector – Wed 13 Jul 1938 p. 3) "Gilead Ladies Aid Meeting. The Gilead Ladies Aid met in an all day meeting with Mrs. Nellie Abair and daughter Velma, July 6, with eleven members present. The day was spent knotting and finishing a comforter and making aprons. At noon a delicious pot-luck dinner was served. In the afternoon the president, Mrs. Hooker, had charge of the business meeting. The scripture lesson was read by Mrs. Siple. The secretary's report was read and approved and various items of business were disposed of. The next meeting will be held with Mrs. Victoria Wynn, Aug. 3."
The 1940 Census caught back up with the family, still residing in Green Township. Peter Abair, 54, was still noted as a farmer. Nellie, 52, was home with Velma, 20, and Harold, 17.
Three years later, on 2 Mar 1943, Nellie and Peter's son Harold married Dorothy Brock. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 18 Mar 1943 p. 3) "About 65 relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair gave them a fine shower Saturday evening at the home of Harold's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair. The evening was spent visititing and the couple received many nice and useful presents. Mrs. Peter Abair served lovely refreshments of cookies, sandwiches, jello and coffee. Mr. and Mrs. Harold Abair treated with candy clusters and cigars. The couple was given an old fashioned belling [i.e a noisy mock serenade made by banging pans and kettles to a newly married couple] after the shower."
During WWII, Harold served in the Army. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Nov 1945 p. 1) "Pvt. Harold R. Abair recently arrived on Okinawa according to word received by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair."
By the time the 1950 Census rolled around, Nellie and Peter's nest was empty. Peter, 64, did not have anything noted in the occupation line. Nellie, 62, was still at his side.
Daughter Velma didn't find her soulmate until she was 36. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 29 Apr 1954 p. 3) "Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair R.R. 3, Argos, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Velma, to Arthur Cordes, son of Lewis Cordes of R.R. 1, Argos. No date has been set for the wedding." (13 Jan 1955 p. 8) "Miss Velma Abair Weds Arthur Cordes, Saturday. Miss Velma Abair, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Abair route 3, Argos, and Arthur Cordes, son of Louis Cordes, route 1, Argos, recited marriage vows in the Richland Center Methodist Church at eight o'clock Saturday evening. The double ring service was read by the pastor, Rev. Dale Hamilton. Attending the couple were Mrs. Grace Boothe, cousin of the bride and Jack Glass, both of Plymouth. The bride was attired in a dress of teal blue taffeta worn with a yellow rose corsage. The matron of honor wore an aqua dress and a red rose corsage. The bridegroom served overseas in World War II and is employed at McCord factory in Plymouth. The couple plans to reside near Argos on route 3, as soon as their house is ready for occupancy."
It was about that same time that Nellie began her battle with diabetes. Four years after watching daughter Velma walk down the aisle, Nellie succumbed to her illness, five days before Thanksgiving Day on 22 Nov 1958. She was 70 years old.
Nellie's husband Peter hit a bump in the road the week before his eightieth birthday. (The Argos Reflector – Thu 9 Sep 1965 p. 1) "Peter Abair, farmer, R.R. 3, Argos, was admitted on Monday to Parkview Hospital for treatment of a broken hip. Mr. Abair fell in his home when he stumbled, resulting in the injury." Peter lived on, not passing into the light until 17 Mar 1971 at age 85.
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